"No point going back because you can’t change anything – best to look forward to what lies ahead and the new adventures.”


We asked everyone we could find – from every corner of the country and various generations, races, men and women, boys and girls – three questions:


1.    What changes when you get older?
2.    What age was the best time of your life, and why?
3.    If you could, would you want to turn back the clock or let time tick on as usual?


Click the images below to open the slideshow and see what real South Africans had to say:


What does getting old mean to you? Would you turn back the clock if you could?
Let us know: ed@lapelle.co.za or send a message to the Lamelle Facebook page


While we can’t actually stop the clock, ageing gracefully is totally possible. You can start by checking out some of these related skin and health articles:
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•    Repairing skin DNA damage
•    Refreshing facts about staying hydrated
•    Fitness apps that motivate you to exercise



– Vanessa, 45

Travel agent



ingredients


+     4 slider buns
+     2 tbsp chicken liver pâté
+     2 tbsp (30 ml) Japanese Kewpie mayo
+     1 cup (200 g) pulled pork, warmed
+     ½ cup (75 g) quick pickled carrots & daikon*
+     8 sprigs cilantro (coriander)
+     1 jalapeno, sliced




method


1    First, toast the slider buns.
2    Spread the pâté on the bottom bun and the

       mayonnaise on the top bun for each sandwich.
3    Top the bottom buns evenly with the pulled pork,

       carrot and daikon.
4    Add cilantro and jalapeno slices to taste.
5    Add the top bun and serve immediately.



ingredients


+     4 slider buns
+     2 tbsp chicken liver pâté
+     2 tbsp (30 ml) Japanese Kewpie mayo
+     1 cup (200 g) pulled pork, warmed
+     ½ cup (75 g) quick pickled carrots & daikon*
+     8 sprigs cilantro (coriander)
+     1 jalapeno, sliced



method


1    First, toast the slider buns.
2    Spread the pâté on the bottom bun and the

       mayonnaise on the top bun for each sandwich.
3    Top the bottom buns evenly with the pulled pork,

       carrot and daikon.
4    Add cilantro and jalapeno slices to taste.
5    Add the top bun and serve immediately.

What does ageing mean to you?

ALL-WHITE CHOCOLATE ROCKY ROAD
MAKES 16 SQUARES


300 g white chocolate
5 ml vanilla extract
80 g desiccated coconut
90–100 g white mini marshmallows




Line a 17x17-cm cake tin with baking paper. Melt the white chocolate in a double-boiler on the stovetop or in a microwave. Stir in the vanilla extract. Mix the coconut and marshmallows together in a bowl. Add the melted chocolate and stir to coat all. Tip the mixture into the prepared cake tin and flatten it out with a spatula. Leave to cool to room temperature before removing and cutting into squares.

Recipe from Sam Linsell’s Sweet,

published by Struik Lifestyle

CHOCOLATE CUPCAKES WITH WHITE CHOCOLATE BUTTERCREAM
MAKES 24


CAKE
180 g butter
400 g granulated brown sugar
3 free-range eggs, room temperature
5 ml instant coffee granules
10 ml vanilla extract
280 g cake flour
250 ml cocoa powder
10 ml bicarbonate of soda
375 ml buttermilk


WHITE CHOCOLATE BUTTERCREAM
200 g white chocolate
170 g butter
5 ml vanilla extract
60 ml milk
390 g icing sugar, sifted


Preheat the oven to 180C. Line 2 x 12-cup muffin tins with paper liners. For the cake, cream the butter and brown sugar together until light and fluffy. Add the eggs, one at a time, mixing well after each addition. Dissolve the coffee granules in the vanilla extract, then add to the mixture. Sift together the cake flour, cocoa powder and bicarbonate of soda. Add the buttermilk and sifted dry ingredients to the creamed sugar and coffee mixture in 3 parts, alternating. Do not overmix. Using a spring-release ice-cream scoop, fill the muffin cups with the mixture, two-thirds full. Bake for 20 minutes until springy to the touch and cooked through. Leave to cool in the tins before turning out. To make the buttercream, melt the chocolate in a double-boiler, then leave to cool. Add all the ingredients, including the cooled melted chocolate, to the bowl of an electric mixer and whip until light and fluffy. Ice the cooled cupcakes and decorate according to preference.

Recipe from Sam Linsell’s Sweet,

published by Struik Lifestyle

45-SECOND CHOCOLATE PUDDINGS WITH SALTED CARAMEL
MAKES 2


3–5 ml quality instant coffee granules
45 ml milk
60 ml self-raising flour
60 ml granulated brown sugar
45 ml cocoa powder, plus extra for dusting
2 ml salt
1 egg, beaten
15 ml sunflower oil
3 ml vanilla extract
10–20 ml readymade caramel (eg Nestlé® Caramel

Treat or dulce de leche) with a pinch of salt
fresh cream or ice cream, for serving (optional)


Dissolve the coffee granules in the milk, then place all the ingredients, except the caramel with a pinch of salt, in a bowl and mix by hand until well combined. Divide the mixture evenly between 2 small bowls, teacups or ramekins. Drop 1–2 teaspoons of salted caramel into the middle of each pudding; it will settle down towards the bottom. Microwave each individually on full power for 45 seconds. At this stage the pudding will be firm,

but still a bit gooey in the centre. If it is too undercooked or too gooey (all microwaves are different), simply microwave for a few more seconds until you are happy with the degree of firmness. Serve with fresh cream or ice cream and dust lightly with cocoa powder.


Recipe from Sam Linsell’s Sweet,

published by Struik Lifestyle

SPICY SALTED CARAMEL POPCORN
MAKES 10–12 CUPS


125 g corn kernels
10 ml coconut oil, or any other neutral oil
5 ml ground cumin
5 ml ground cinnamon
3 ml paprika
5 ml salt
2 ml bicarbonate of soda
150 g butter
200 g granulated white sugar
30 ml golden syrup
5 ml vanilla extract









Preheat the oven to 120C. Line a baking tray with silicone or baking paper.Make the popcorn any way that you prefer. (I like to use a large skillet with a glass lid.) Transfer the popcorn to a large, deep bowl; it should only half fill the bowl, allowing space to toss the sauce. Mix all the spices and bicarbonate of soda together. In a medium-size, heavy-based pot bring the butter, sugar and syrup to the boil. Continue to let it bubble, stirring continuously, until the mixture turns golden-brown and reaches the hard crack stage of 155C. Add the vanilla extract and spice mix and stir vigorously for a few seconds, then remove from the heat. Pour the hot caramel over the popcorn and toss to coat. Spread the caramel-covered popcorn evenly on the prepared baking tray and bake for 15 minutes. Remove it from the oven and toss to ensure it’s evenly coated. Return it to the oven for a further 15 minutes, then remove, toss again and leave to cool. Once cool, break it up and store in an airtight container.


Recipe from Sam Linsell’s Sweet,

published by Struik Lifestyle

We asked people of all ages and walks of life how they feel about getting older – here’s what they said.